you have been living in a dream world, n30

we stayed up too late last night. i am not sure that i was asleep before 4. i was still up at 645. it was elder ring, sourdough pizza, listening to isobel and elliott drunk hysterical argue over skype and chocolate cherry muffins. i hate that audun drives home so late. i know he is … Read moreyou have been living in a dream world, n30


I walked by this on Friday afternoon and sent it to some people. It made me giggle when I saw it. Some of the reactions I got to it stirred up some weird commentary I had not expected. One person had asked me if I had felt appreciated. I stared at the message a moment … Read moreSprung


Key Insight: Your identity comes from your view of your future. Everything we do as people is to create outcomes. You become a conscious human being by being highly specific about the outcomes you want. Challenge: –Pull out your journal and reflect: What is the future you’re currently pursuing? Surviving. -What future do you really … Read morefour/30


Key Insight: All of the mainstream personality tests are junk science. Specifically, tests that put people into “boxes” or “categories.” There is no such thing as a personality type. Don’t let a label define who you are.  Challenge: –What would happen if you stop defining yourself by limiting labels? I suppose without the “introvert” label, … Read morethree/30


Key Insight: You’re not the same person you were in the past. And your future self will not be the same person you are today. You get to choose how you see your past and you get to choose who you’ll be in the future. Asia linked me to a project that she thought will … Read moretwo/30

Round and round the mulberry bush

when you know that people treat you as a reflection of the way you treat yourself you wonder why you treat yourself the way you do. be kinder to yourself, dear hearts. you are precious. is your beloved being indifferent & cold? have you been perhaps silent and presumptuous? hold up the mirror. like for … Read moreRound and round the mulberry bush

eye to eye we need no words at all

I was talking to Isobel tonight about how I got myself into this position and she found herself nodding a lot during my explanations. Having the mastery of your circumstances is all well & good but where to go with that information, well — that is something else. I am glad she is more like … Read moreeye to eye we need no words at all