I have not been around these parts much these days. I make my daily reflections (to keep my sanity) and I pop off. I was checking the site stats and I noticed some strange activity. I understand that some of the posts are read-only for members but it is not complicated to be one. I … Read moreCircles

And a compass wouldn’t help at all

How do you navigate social cues? I do not understand how to “get” people in the slightest. I mean, Isabel I can nearly taste how she feels sometimes. She clearly expresses herself. She tries to hide but she projects her expressions very well. There are a few people that I know like this. Not as … Read moreAnd a compass wouldn’t help at all

It’s complicated — but it doesn’t have to be.

-Isabel invited me to do this with her. -I have started vipassana to replace my other forms of meditation for a while. I shall update in a week or so. -Everyone at work has been sick so even though I am not really supposed to be there, I have been. Bittersweet is not just for … Read moreIt’s complicated — but it doesn’t have to be.

strings and attractors

“First be really honest with yourself: what have you allowed in your life that you never wanted in the first place.” I had this reoccurring knack. I would notice something that I did not like, I would either speak up and say, “no, this is not cool” and it would continue with no consequence or … Read morestrings and attractors

nth hoop

I remember back in the LiveJournal days, I was in a community for abuse survivors. I never posted my own story, I just commented on those that did. I was never brave enough. I did notice something: Over the years, the women that I have kept up with (I am friends with several of them … Read morenth hoop

“status”: “{not} ok”

While viewing my error logs I found these: [21-Jul-2021 18:54:13 UTC] WordPress database error Illegal mix of collations (utf8_general_ci,IMPLICIT) and (utf8mb4_unicode_520_ci,COERCIBLE) for operation ‘like’ for query SELECT SQL_CALC_FOUND_ROWS wpqy_posts.ID FROM wpqy_posts WHERE 1=1 AND (((wpqy_posts.post_title LIKE ‘%Hey hey! boy!! ^\\_^ My husband cheated on me. 😘 😗BEST DATING SITE😘 I can’t stand it anymore. Let’s … Read more“status”: “{not} ok”