we are indeed creators

woman with oversized round glasses and red hair blowing out cheeks making a silly face

Be love. Be kind. Know your worth. Remain forever confident to be recognised. You have nothing to prove. Be yourself. Let them bloom, fail, wander, and learn. Ignore them. Detach and be unbothered. Do not react if it does not feel good to you. You do not owe anyone a damn thing. You are a … Read morewe are indeed creators

Insufficient facts always invite danger

In some cases, some people act negatively toward being loved. It is challenging to tolerate and accept. Many people would rather be around those that treat them like rubbish than be with people that adore them for who they are. They pine after old relationships with people that cheated on them or abused them because … Read moreInsufficient facts always invite danger

It’s complicated — but it doesn’t have to be.

-Isabel invited me to do this with her. -I have started vipassana to replace my other forms of meditation for a while. I shall update in a week or so. -Everyone at work has been sick so even though I am not really supposed to be there, I have been. Bittersweet is not just for … Read moreIt’s complicated — but it doesn’t have to be.

nth hoop

I remember back in the LiveJournal days, I was in a community for abuse survivors. I never posted my own story, I just commented on those that did. I was never brave enough. I did notice something: Over the years, the women that I have kept up with (I am friends with several of them … Read morenth hoop

night divides the day

Mulder to Scully after Melissa died. fate: a power beyond human control that is believed to determine what happens: destiny destiny: a predetermined course of events often held to be an irresistible power or agency People generally belong to one of two camps: 1.) why bother to do anything, life is happening to me I … Read morenight divides the day

Pomegranate bomb

Every memory that you store is based on your perception of what actually happened – rarely what really happened. What are you holding on to that is giving you grief, pain or trauma? Can you edit it out in a way that it could give you joy or at the best indifference? Maybe you just … Read morePomegranate bomb