Tue. May 17th, 2022

While viewing my error logs I found these:

[21-Jul-2021 18:54:13 UTC] WordPress database error Illegal mix of collations (utf8_general_ci,IMPLICIT) and (utf8mb4_unicode_520_ci,COERCIBLE) for operation ‘like’ for query SELECT SQL_CALC_FOUND_ROWS wpqy_posts.ID FROM wpqy_posts WHERE 1=1 AND (((wpqy_posts.post_title LIKE ‘%Hey hey! boy!! ^\\_^ My husband cheated on me. 😘www.datingbe.xyz 😗BEST DATING SITE😘 I can’t stand it anymore. Let’s meet and talk about it. 🪀❤️️ ️www.datingbe.xyz😚Come on 😚️www.datingbe.xyz👄%’) OR (wpqy_posts.post_excerpt LIKE ‘%Hey hey! boy!! ^\\_^ My husband cheated on me. 😘www.datingbe.xyz 😗BEST DATING SITE😘 I can’t stand it anymore. Let’s meet and talk about it. 🪀❤️️ ️www.datingbe.xyz😚Come on 😚️www.datingbe.xyz👄%’) OR (wpqy_posts.post_content LIKE ‘%Hey hey! boy!! ^\\_^ My husband cheated on me. 😘www.datingbe.xyz 😗BEST DATING SITE😘 I can’t stand it anymore. Let’s meet and talk about it. 🪀❤️️ ️www.datingbe.xyz😚Come on 😚️www.datingbe.xyz👄%’))) AND (wpqy_posts.post_password = ”) AND wpqy_posts.post_type IN (‘post’, ‘page’, ‘attachment’) AND (wpqy_posts.post_status = ‘publish’) ORDER BY (CASE WHEN wpqy_posts.post_title LIKE ‘%Hey hey! boy!! ^\\_^ My husband cheated on me. 😘www.datingbe.xyz 😗BEST DATING SITE😘 I can’t stand it anymore. Let’s meet and talk about it. 🪀❤️️ ️www.datingbe.xyz😚Come on 😚️www.datingbe.xyz👄%’ THEN 1 WHEN wpqy_posts.post_title LIKE ‘%Hey hey! boy!! ^\\_^ My husband cheated on me. 😘www.datingbe.xyz 😗BEST DATING SITE😘 I can’t stand it anymore. Let’s meet and talk about it. 🪀❤️️ ️www.datingbe.xyz😚Come on 😚️www.datingbe.xyz👄%’ THEN 2 WHEN wpqy_posts.post_excerpt LIKE ‘%Hey hey! boy!! ^\\_^ My husband cheated on me. 😘www.datingbe.xyz 😗BEST DATING SITE😘 I can’t stand it anymore. Let’s meet and talk about it. 🪀❤️️ ️www.datingbe.xyz😚Come on 😚️www.datingbe.xyz👄%’ THEN 4 WHEN wpqy_posts.post_content LIKE ‘%Hey hey! boy!! ^\\_^ My husband cheated on me. 😘www.datingbe.xyz 😗BEST DATING SITE😘 I can’t stand it anymore. Let’s meet and talk about it. 🪀❤️️ ️www.datingbe.xyz😚Come on 😚️www.datingbe.xyz👄%’ THEN 5 ELSE 6 END), wpqy_posts.post_date DESC LIMIT 0, 10 made by require(‘wp-blog-header.php’), wp, WP->main, WP->query_posts, WP_Query->query, WP_Query->get_posts

 

[30-Jan-2022 21:40:20 UTC] WordPress database error Illegal mix of collations (utf8_general_ci,IMPLICIT) and (utf8mb4_unicode_520_ci,COERCIBLE) for operation ‘=’ for query SELECT comment_ID FROM wpqy_comments WHERE comment_post_ID = 3923 AND comment_parent = ‘0’ AND comment_approved != ‘trash’ AND ( comment_author = ‘🎁 Congratulations Artificial intelligence itself writes articles and places them on the web, and itself posts in wordpress. more details on the website https://stanford.io/3G7Hfmp?h=17a1a63ce5abe103370cb066539fded1& 🎁’ AND comment_author_email = ‘gtxxx@boranora.com’ ) AND comment_content = ‘ugfafmwf’ LIMIT 1 made by wp_handle_comment_submission, wp_new_comment, wp_allow_comment

Spam in my error logs? Wtf? Seems like I might need to install Wordfence or something but I found this to be amusing.

I am doing my best to clean up the mess I made a few months ago. I was acting like a hurt, hormonal, irrational brat. I do not care that everyone agreed with what I was doing. I would not have wanted it done to me. It was wrong. I cannot get the domain offline completely until the original owner removes it but I have scrubbed all the pieces I can off. The legal parts are not as easy, but I did not start those and I can only voice my own side of the story – the rest will be up to that human to sort out if they see fit.

I have learned a valuable lesson that I would like to share with as many of you that will listen: as tempting as it may be to vent about your relationship online just DO NOT. It is not worth it. You are collecting everyone else’s biases instead of listening to your feelings. Your friends may not want to see you get hurt because they love you (naturally) but they do not know enough about the situation to give you sound advice. If you cannot communicate with your significant other, walk away. Sure, give it a few tries. You owe it to yourself and them – the situation might be tricky due to timing & other factors. Life is hardly perfect. You need to decide for YOURSELF when enough is enough. Adding the whole of the internet attracts drama that is not fucking worth it.

I promise you.