It is not a big surprise that I am thought of as a bit slow when it comes to my social interactions. I am told that I am not to be trusted when it comes to matters of the heart because I test poorly with men.
I explain myself and I am told that I am excellent at “making excuses”.
The only way I can do anything properly in this arena is to stay alone and read books. Honestly, there is no way I can make this virtuous. Have any optimism, have heart and you are seeing things in a positive light and how dare you.
Am I unrealistic? Who is calling the shots? Has this person lived a life similar to mine or one that has had twists and turns like a reusable bamboo straw?
I think a lot of this boils down to this. Honesty without tact is cruelty. Just be kind.